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Loving Everyone: A Poem for Valentine’s Day

Spread The Love Around

by Robert Holden, Ph.D
Poetry
Happy Valentine’s Day to you.
Traditionally, Valentine’s Day is the day we show our love to one special person in our life. This is a lovely thing to do. That said, I feel that Valentine’s Day would be even lovelier if we made it a day to show our love to everyone in our life. Everyone must also include our self too. Maybe we could start a new tradition. Starting from today. Continue Reading

To Love Someone

A Poem for Valentine's Day

by Robert Holden, Ph.D
Poetry
Happy Valentine’s Day!

May TODAY be a day in which every individual, and the whole wide world, chooses love over fear, love over hate, and love over attack.

Below is a poem I wrote, called “To Love Someone” when I was putting together the vision for a workshop called “Love and Fear.” Continue Reading

10 Steps to Happiness

As appeared in the Daily Express

by Robert Holden, Ph.D
Press
The DAILY EXPRESS published an article today, “10 Steps to Happiness“, that outlines my ten tips for facing blue Monday, the economic recession, and for rediscovering your joyful side. Here is the article in full. Enjoy.

UNTIL recently psychologists dismissed happiness as a “pleasurable emotion with no evolutionary value”. The theory was happiness feels good but it isn’t useful. However research reveals happiness has a powerful effect on the brain that helps you to think broadly, to come up with creative solutions and makes you generally more resilient.

In short happiness helps you to bring out the best in yourself. Follow my tips below to rediscover your joyful side.

1 The Big Re-think

Real, enduring happiness cannot be bought. Research confirms that money is important for basic needs like food, rent and clothes. However the link between higher income and increased happiness has been described in one study as “surprisingly weak” and “virtually negligible”. In fact a third of all millionaires are less happy than the national average.

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10 Miracles of Gratitude

The Power of Keeping a Daily Gratitude Journal

On January 1st 2009 I made my first entry in a journal called 365 Gratitudes.

One of my new year’s resolutions to myself was to make a daily entry of “one-gratitude-per-day” for a calendar year. Why? Because I wanted to experience the power of gratitude and how it might affect my life, my relationships, and my ideas about happiness, success, and abundance.

Just now, with a few hours to go before mid-night on December 31st, I made my final entry for the year.

365 Gratitudes, as I like to call it, has been a challenging and enlightening experiment. Continue Reading

Christmas: The Angel of Forgiveness

A Poem to Reflect on Forgiveness

by Robert Holden, Ph.D
Poetry
Happy Christmas to You! I wish you and your family an enchanting Christmas and glad tidings for the new year ahead. With that in mind I offer you the following poem, The Angel of Forgiveness.

Forgiveness is an Angel you pray to
when you need a miracle to
save you.

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Finding Happiness

Article for Oprah.com

by Robert Holden, Ph.D
Press
On Friday this week I will wrap up another Be Happy 8-week happiness course, held in London, UK. The end of the program always feels bittersweet to me. I am already grieving and I am so grateful for the journey we have been on. And it’s not over yet!

For the last eight weeks a group of fifty people have participated in a deep inquiry into life’s #1 goal: happiness. The theme for this year has been, giving up the search for happiness. Continue Reading